Monday, December 6, 2010

Pregnancy books suck

I'm still at home, still bed-resting.

This weekend was pretty quiet (what, no raging parties in my bedroom??) and the critter decided to stay put. I continue to have odd twinges and sensations in the ute/pelvic floor/lower abdomen/hip flexor areas, and last night I did have 2 mild contractions. But nothing horribly painful, nothing organized, and it stopped. So I go to the OB later today for my scheduled appointment, we'll see what she says.

I'm hoping to get some clarity about the whole breech baby/scheduled c-section thing today at the appointment. I'm not sure how this will all work given the pre-term labor. If I can get that far, will they let me go to 37 weeks? Will they schedule me sooner? Will they even try an external version given the pre-term labor scare? I have no idea what she will say.

And this brings me to my latest bitch. Yet again, my pregnancy books are useless. Seriously, what a waste these books have been for me. I have been an outlier in conception, in pregnancy, and apparently now in labor and birth. These books talk about identifying early labor, and what they describe is NOTHING like what I went through. Sigh, I really should write a better pregnancy book, for the outliers. Granted, only a small percentage of people will find it useful (and it will scare the crap out of the normals, but that could be worth it right there!). And there is nothing really written in these books about pre-term labor. Nothing. So again, I'm googling for information. Pregnancy books suck, they are for normal fertiles. Don't waste your money.

So 34 weeks, 2 days today. Yup, I've resorted to counting the days too. Each day is a good thing at this point.

4 comments:

  1. I remember my last several weeks feeling all kinds of weird stuff, mostly achiness in my abdomen and hips. I was constantly questioning if I was going into labor or not. It is such a guessing game as to how it will all play out, it can really drive you crazy. Unfortunately we have no control over how it will go and each day will leave you with, will it be tomorrow? Hang in there!

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  2. I'm sorry you are stuck on bed rest -- it really stinks, and it's lousy that nothing in your books is helping you put your experience into a broader context -- so very annoying, and yet typical.
    I hope that your appointment today goes well and that your OB has loads of good info for you! Mostly, I hope that the little one and you continue to grow happily and healthily for as long as you wish!

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  3. You're doing great just hanging on to critter! I hope the appointment today went great. It's so exciting, she's almost here!!

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  4. Hang in there--that baby will be here soon (but not too soon!). Sorry I'm so behind on commenting, but I went back and read about your scary hospital visit--yikes! I'm glad all turned out to be okay with the critter for now. And I think you should totally write an outlier book!

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