Wow. Lots of strong, but differing opinions to that last post.
Who knew that POAS would cause such controversy?
So let's see if some additional info would sway your opinions - DH is not going out of town for work. He's going on a bachelor weekend (the male half of the couple I went on the bachelorette disaster a few weeks back).
On Mother's Day weekend. On beta weekend.
As you might be guessing, I'm none too thrilled with this. Not with going on a bachelor weekend itself, but of the timing of it. And I said as much as it was being planned. I knew it would be beta weekend, and told him so. But it was allegedly the only weekend that would work, so this weekend it is.
Does that change your opinion at all? Just wondering...
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I would test Thursday morning before DH leaves. That will be 6dpt right? If so, and you test with a good quality test (I always use FRER), you'll have your answer. That way you get to test (and celebrate) together and won't have to wait all weekend not knowing. If it's bad news (which I really don't think it will be), then perhaps DH will reconsider his bachelor weekend.
ReplyDeleteI didn't weigh in on the last post, so I'll do so now. I say don't POAS. Those sticks are the devil. Wait until beta. I'm sure DH will be back in time to get the phone call. In the meantime, you can fill your weekend with fun activities (girls' night out, shopping, mani/pedi, whatever).
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't necessarily trust the results of POAS at 6pdt. However, given the new info above, I would definitely test while your DH is out of town, if that is what YOU want to do. If it will make you feel better to be on the phone with him or whatever, that's great. But I can definitely see that it would be annoying to you that he would go out of town on an optional trip during beta time. And Mother's Day at that...
ReplyDeleteso I say go for it!
I still say pee!
ReplyDeleteOkay, there's no doubt you want to POAS. But do you want to POAS if he's not there? I've already pretty much said this, but he's doing what he wants to do so you should do the same. But I realize you may need him to be there for you; after all, it is Mother's Day! I think you should decide what is going to be best for you. If you need to wait until he gets home, maybe you can figure out a way to delay the news for a bit. This sucks, doesn't it?!
ReplyDeleteYou need to tell us what you decide to do! I still say to POAS!!!
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